Being Important

I wonder how some people become so important in our lives. Or is it that we make them important for us? We give them all the rights equal to us. We rely on them. Give them the liberty to scold us on our mistakes. Make them the reason for our smiles. And eventually they become the reason for our crying as well. Apart from all the good things that we get from them we even give them the ability to hurt us. Its like creating a monster out of an angel that we saw. Often we think that limitising ourselves would create barriers in our comfort levels. But we fail to analyse the pros and cons of the after effects of the so called ‘freedom’ given to our partners. Generally we get drifted towards the lovey-dovey nature of ours and get so sugar coated for others. And this is when they act like ants and eat us inside out. Being sugary is our weakness, and people feed on them. At times it gets really important to stick to your norms and notions. To stand by your self respect and put your mindset forward. Adjustment is an option, toleration is a crime, and co-operation is a blessing. Its never rude to let others know what u like and dislike, it’ll only make them more aware of you and hence co-ordinate with you smoothly. Relations succeed when the pace is equal, and they fail when there’s a fight to be ahead of each other. Friends and partners, have their own importance in life. But to keep yourself at the bottom of your list will not prove your love for them, but rather make them ignore you as well. Just like you do to yourself. Remember that every human has the right to freedom of ‘life’.