Being Important

I wonder how some people become so important in our lives. Or is it that we make them important for us? We give them all the rights equal to us. We rely on them. Give them the liberty to scold us on our mistakes. Make them the reason for our smiles. And eventually they become the reason for our crying as well. Apart from all the good things that we get from them we even give them the ability to hurt us. Its like creating a monster out of an angel that we saw. Often we think that limitising ourselves would create barriers in our comfort levels. But we fail to analyse the pros and cons of the after effects of the so called ‘freedom’ given to our partners. Generally we get drifted towards the lovey-dovey nature of ours and get so sugar coated for others. And this is when they act like ants and eat us inside out. Being sugary is our weakness, and people feed on them. At times it gets really important to stick to your norms and notions. To stand by your self respect and put your mindset forward. Adjustment is an option, toleration is a crime, and co-operation is a blessing. Its never rude to let others know what u like and dislike, it’ll only make them more aware of you and hence co-ordinate with you smoothly. Relations succeed when the pace is equal, and they fail when there’s a fight to be ahead of each other. Friends and partners, have their own importance in life. But to keep yourself at the bottom of your list will not prove your love for them, but rather make them ignore you as well. Just like you do to yourself. Remember that every human has the right to freedom of ‘life’.

I ME MYSELF AND OTHERS

Wake up in the morning and the first thing I do is say myself ‘’I love you megha’’. Must be crazy for people who think these golden words are just meant for your loved ones. I love myself. And so does all of us, somewhere in the deepest corner of your heart, you have this selfish little devil that makes you think about yourself first. Don’t hide it, let it be free. Its not negative to be selfish. But its wrong to be a shelled fish. Whatever we do in life, from basic necessities to getting out in the world and facing it. We do it for our welfare.. for our needs..being selfless is humane. But not fruitful. Humanity comes with generosity. Be generous to your own self, only then you’ll do justice to the world. Pamper yourself. Nurture yourself. Be a mother to yourself. And bring yourself up. Talk to your own soul. Analyse your problems yourself. Consider what are you good at and make the most of it. You live..you die..your age increases every year.and finally its you who’ll put an end to all this. Its about your choices, your life. Smile and the world wont smile with you. They’ll ask you, quite a surprise, till yesterday you looked blue? ;) take pride in loving yourself. Its not being selfish its not mean. Its just about loving the right person in your life. And doing justice to this pure feeling! J

BE YOURSELF

…Hmm.. been a hiatus of 3 long years that I logged in my blog and tried writing something. Feels good to be back to my good ol’ listener friend. I met this blog during my days of struggle and loneliness.. the days when I spent lying down in solitude and getting tensed about my choice of career. This was the time when I became friends with words and they didn’t leave my side since then. J true that I didn’t write since I entered a different phase of life, that which had a lot of energy and brain sucking situations. Yet I made sure I stay in touch with my friend. .in touch with ‘’me’’.The most hideous crime that a person does, knowingly or unknowingly is to forget himself.. or rather lose itself to the worldly beliefs and trends. To hold yourself back to what you call your ‘’roots’’ is hard but its harder to get a hold of yourself as ‘’you’’.. as an individual.. as your own soul and mindset. Many a times we see the world changing around us. And hence we change accordingly. Our perceptions change. Taste the bitter and we miss the sweetness of life. Life is as we take it. As we lead it. We lead it with pride, and we are proud to live. We lead it as a duty, and it’s a burden for us. We live it as a dream, and it’s a fantasy for us. We live it by looking at others..then its nothing for us..its not our life anymore then. Change is good. But a change in your thoughts,your aspirations, YOUR dreams will lead you nowhere. But living your own life as someone else. Someone whom you just like. But not ‘’know’’ is not a life you chose to live, but rather made it for yourself.. Develop. Improve. Get inspired and NOT INFLUENCED.